Thursday, December 27, 2007

Christmas is over...

Christmas was a tough one this year. I was trying not to remember the time when we thought we would have Oliveia home by now. I am trying really hard to keep my head up, but Christmas brought me down. I didn't really get into it very much this year, I guess I was banking on having a baby in the house by now and starting some new family traditions. Together, Tim and I are still pretty mellow about the increased referral time, but, when I am alone is when I think about it way too much. Now, my new mission is, get in shape and get ready to keep up with Olive, and pray for a referral by my birthday in July! What a nice gift that would be, ahhhhh. I know 2008 is going to be a good year, I can feel it in my soul. We are so ready for our little one to be in our home. Financially, we are strapped down, tight budget, etc. but we will need to get used to that part of parenting anyway especially in San Francisco. We are always on the lookout for a larger place to live, but don't really want to do anything that will effect our paperwork that is already in process in Vietnam. Our agency said that we could move and we would have to take with us to Vietnam an amendment to our dossier, but we don't want to get all the way over there and have any problems. There is already enough going on over there, we don't want to throw anything off, you know?
Anyway, not really an update, just some thoughts I was having today I needed to get off my chest.
On a side note...check out how cute this dress is from Gymboree, from the "Holland Days" collection.

Friday, December 14, 2007

Grandma is hard at work

My Mom just sent me a photo of the quilt that she is making for Oliveia.

I love it so much! I know Olive is going to love it to.
My Mom is so sweet, she was telling me when she makes a quilt she imagines the baby that is going to have it, thinks about the family, etc. Sniff sniff....

Monday, December 10, 2007

New Referral Time

10-12 months...
That is our new wait time for our referral. Minus the time since we got our number, so one month, OK, so 9-11 months.
We found out last week. Nothing we can do except enjoy the time we have together before Olive is here! Some days are harder than others to be patient, but most of the time we are pretty content with the new timeline. We really have no control over any of this. We are happy that our paperwork is registered in Vietnam with the DIA and we started this process when we did. The future of adoption from Vietnam is unclear at the moment so we are just sitting tight and praying that we get the call soon and will be able to go and get our little one soon.
Stay tuned...